It's not a easy job to be the bad guy that people can easily point fingers at. You don't win the best of friends and perhaps you win enemies for life. More than that you get judged based on something that you may have made a judgement on. You get to be the fall guy, the bad cop if you may. But. there does come a time in everyone's life when you realize that you are not here to win popularity contests, because popularity contests will never give you satisfaction.
He who says that he doesn't judge lies. He who says that making judgments is wrong is afraid of the truth. He who says that being judgmental is a passive activity has his eyes closed and brains shut down. It is human nature to make judgments so how can one possibly not do it- quite easy actually- IF you are mentally immature or under developed, a infant, a pebble, water, sand or a piece of crap. If you are an adult with a few years of life as experience, you will make judgments. Heck, if you are a 5 year old you possibly would make judgments- or a dog or a cat or a horse.
What is a freaking judgment that everyone hates to admit to making? It is nothing but the assimilation of your life's experiences coming together to form an opinion about something. This is probably one of the few things that is truly your own. However, to be "safe" people adhere to other peoples' opinions and follow what they say- that's what sheep do. If one has opinions, they call them opinionated. Unless, ofcourse, they cloak it in big fancy words and some intellectual mumbo jumbo and they suddenly become nothing short of a guru or expert. Does anyone notice the dichotomy? I have been part of this "intellectual community" but learned that there is nothing intellectual about them really. It's a farce and it's as hedonistic as it can get. When I sought to challenge the notions that prevail or the imperfect ways of research with a more rational logic, people called it radical yet unacceptable. That "intellectual" world is full of sycophants who follow the system like sheep- speak in the same way and what they say is based on what other's have a;ready said before. As one advances in the educational levels, it becomes a race of trying to prove their favorite heroes right against the other heroes of the other "intellectuals". As you can imagine, it becomes pointless and in the end, the result is a stale piece of bread- perhaps with a different kind of mold growing on it.
Anyway, I digress. So opinions. people have them and if I express mine, people say I am opinionated. That's their opinion right? What is my opinion based on? My life's experiences- possibly life experiences of those around me or even life's experiences of people I may have read about. For many, that probably isnt enough. I dont know what their opinion is based on but I hope it is based on their experiences too and not 'cos someone told them that this was a "wrong" opinion. In fact this happens more often that not. People protest more when they do not express their true opinions which probably do not find expression as they do have conviction in their own opinions and just decide to be a sheep and follow the herd and put out a statement. As an individualist, to me, that is very sad.
I don't really put out things that are extraordinarily bizarre or unbelievable. Just certain facts backed by not jus experience but common sense, logic, rational and often scientific research too! It's simple- you would not stand in front of a fast train (or even a slow moving train for that matter) because you know it's a bad idea. You dont have to do it to know it's a bad idea. The experience here is not important because you are already aware of the consequences. Some thing are just plain obvious. No, it's not a generalization but some things are just obvious! Yet people fight that obvious-ness because it would probably go against their beliefs/pleasures/convenience. Sad again- because rational is relegated to trash. Some people have to stand in front of that proverbial train- even rats know better- they learn to not touch a trap twice (if they survive) or not go through a blocked route twice. But humans are more complex- and stupid.
So, in the face of stupid people who refuse to listen to logic, rationale or scientific evidence and continue to live a life of denial, waste and stupidity, I have no qualms in expressing the very obvious truths as my opinions or even judgments. In the end, almost always, I have been proven right because I dont go shooting my mouth about whatever- it is always about what I know. For instance, if I had to climb Mt Everest, I will listen to someone who has been there and got to the peak successfully- not some guy who has never seem a hill before. It is about legitimacy sometimes but usually always about sound logic and common sense.
So really, my opinions have never been something new to be offered- they are usually a reminder of reality, the existence of possibilities and the fight against stupidity. I have made my own mistakes and people will make their own- but if someone gives good advice, I always take it. To be brazenly and consciously ignorant of certain inalienable truths is comprehensively demented. I believe in "keeping it real" - creativity indulges fantasy but it is different from stupidity. One day the stupids of the world will slowly rise from their smoky stupors and listen to reason. And till then I will be judged for allegedly "judging" them. And till then I will always be the devil's advocate- heck, by what I realized today, I am probably god's advocate, if ever there was such a thing.
He who says that he doesn't judge lies. He who says that making judgments is wrong is afraid of the truth. He who says that being judgmental is a passive activity has his eyes closed and brains shut down. It is human nature to make judgments so how can one possibly not do it- quite easy actually- IF you are mentally immature or under developed, a infant, a pebble, water, sand or a piece of crap. If you are an adult with a few years of life as experience, you will make judgments. Heck, if you are a 5 year old you possibly would make judgments- or a dog or a cat or a horse.
What is a freaking judgment that everyone hates to admit to making? It is nothing but the assimilation of your life's experiences coming together to form an opinion about something. This is probably one of the few things that is truly your own. However, to be "safe" people adhere to other peoples' opinions and follow what they say- that's what sheep do. If one has opinions, they call them opinionated. Unless, ofcourse, they cloak it in big fancy words and some intellectual mumbo jumbo and they suddenly become nothing short of a guru or expert. Does anyone notice the dichotomy? I have been part of this "intellectual community" but learned that there is nothing intellectual about them really. It's a farce and it's as hedonistic as it can get. When I sought to challenge the notions that prevail or the imperfect ways of research with a more rational logic, people called it radical yet unacceptable. That "intellectual" world is full of sycophants who follow the system like sheep- speak in the same way and what they say is based on what other's have a;ready said before. As one advances in the educational levels, it becomes a race of trying to prove their favorite heroes right against the other heroes of the other "intellectuals". As you can imagine, it becomes pointless and in the end, the result is a stale piece of bread- perhaps with a different kind of mold growing on it.
Anyway, I digress. So opinions. people have them and if I express mine, people say I am opinionated. That's their opinion right? What is my opinion based on? My life's experiences- possibly life experiences of those around me or even life's experiences of people I may have read about. For many, that probably isnt enough. I dont know what their opinion is based on but I hope it is based on their experiences too and not 'cos someone told them that this was a "wrong" opinion. In fact this happens more often that not. People protest more when they do not express their true opinions which probably do not find expression as they do have conviction in their own opinions and just decide to be a sheep and follow the herd and put out a statement. As an individualist, to me, that is very sad.
I don't really put out things that are extraordinarily bizarre or unbelievable. Just certain facts backed by not jus experience but common sense, logic, rational and often scientific research too! It's simple- you would not stand in front of a fast train (or even a slow moving train for that matter) because you know it's a bad idea. You dont have to do it to know it's a bad idea. The experience here is not important because you are already aware of the consequences. Some thing are just plain obvious. No, it's not a generalization but some things are just obvious! Yet people fight that obvious-ness because it would probably go against their beliefs/pleasures/convenience. Sad again- because rational is relegated to trash. Some people have to stand in front of that proverbial train- even rats know better- they learn to not touch a trap twice (if they survive) or not go through a blocked route twice. But humans are more complex- and stupid.
So, in the face of stupid people who refuse to listen to logic, rationale or scientific evidence and continue to live a life of denial, waste and stupidity, I have no qualms in expressing the very obvious truths as my opinions or even judgments. In the end, almost always, I have been proven right because I dont go shooting my mouth about whatever- it is always about what I know. For instance, if I had to climb Mt Everest, I will listen to someone who has been there and got to the peak successfully- not some guy who has never seem a hill before. It is about legitimacy sometimes but usually always about sound logic and common sense.
So really, my opinions have never been something new to be offered- they are usually a reminder of reality, the existence of possibilities and the fight against stupidity. I have made my own mistakes and people will make their own- but if someone gives good advice, I always take it. To be brazenly and consciously ignorant of certain inalienable truths is comprehensively demented. I believe in "keeping it real" - creativity indulges fantasy but it is different from stupidity. One day the stupids of the world will slowly rise from their smoky stupors and listen to reason. And till then I will be judged for allegedly "judging" them. And till then I will always be the devil's advocate- heck, by what I realized today, I am probably god's advocate, if ever there was such a thing.
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